Monday, November 26, 2007

History of the Advent Wreath

With the Advent Season starting this weekend and Black Friday behind us, if you've not started to already, it's time to get focused on the REASON FOR THE SEASON. As a primer, here is a brief commentary on the history of the Advent wreath and it's meaning.

Full text found at Catholic Education Resource Center.

The Advent wreath is part of our long-standing Catholic tradition. However, the actual origins are uncertain. There is evidence of pre-Christian Germanic peoples using wreathes with lit candles during the cold and dark December days as a sign of hope in the future warm and extended-sunlight days of Spring. In Scandinavia during Winter, lighted candles were placed around a wheel, and prayers were offered to the god of light to turn “the wheel of the earth” back toward the sun to lengthen the days and restore warmth.

By the Middle Ages, the Christians adapted this tradition and used Advent wreathes as part of their spiritual preparation for Christmas. After all, Christ is “the Light that came into the world” to dispel the darkness of sin and to radiate the truth and love of God (cf. John 3:19-21). By 1600, both Catholics and Lutherans had more formal practices surrounding the Advent wreath.

The symbolism of the Advent wreath is beautiful. The wreath is made of various evergreens, signifying continuous life. Even these evergreens have a traditional meaning which can be adapted to our faith: The laurel signifies victory over persecution and suffering; pine, holly, and yew, immortality; and cedar, strength and healing. Holly also has a special Christian symbolism: The prickly leaves remind us of the crown of thorns, and one English legend tells of how the cross was made of holly. The circle of the wreath, which has no beginning or end, symbolizes the eternity of God, the immortality of the soul, and the everlasting life found in Christ. Any pine cones, nuts, or seedpods used to decorate the wreath also symbolize life and resurrection. All together, the wreath of evergreens depicts the immortality of our soul and the new, everlasting life promised to us through Christ, the eternal Word of the Father, who entered our world becoming true man and who was victorious over sin and death through His own passion, death, and resurrection. [full article]

Father William Saunders is dean of the Notre Dame Graduate School of Christendom College and pastor of Our Lady of Hope Parish in Sterling, Virginia. The above article is a "Straight Answers" column he wrote for the Arlington Catholic Herald. Father Saunders is also the author of Straight Answers, a book based on 100 of his columns and published by Cathedral Press in Baltimore.

Friday, November 23, 2007

Oh Boy ... Am I Mad!!!

Mike gave a great teaching at the last MMJ Meeting about the Christian approach to anger. 

Didn't know it before, but there are different types of anger -- it's not just mad and really mad anymore.

Click the link below to read about these types of anger and how to deal with it like a Christian.

Download the PowerPoint of the presentation here.

2008 January/February/March Calendar

Date

Topic

Presenter

January 4th

Blindspots - "Objects Are Closer Than They Appear"Jack Stephens
January 18thPorn; The Silent Drug - Fighting BackTony Frese
February 1stWhere's the Beef?!" - A Primer On LentGreg Treanor
February 15thFaith. Hope. Love. Building Theological VirtueMike Maetz
February 29th"Take this job and @$%!" - A Christian Look At WorkVince Frese
March 14thUnderstanding Sacrifice - The Stations of the CrossPhil Saucier
March 28thHomosexuality - A Cause For Christian ConfusionTBD

2007 November/December Calendar

Date

Topic

Presenter

November 30th

"Who Me?" - Understanding Your TemperamentTony Frese
December 15th

Half Day Retreat - "Dare to be Great!"

Fr. Todd

"Who Me?" - Understanding Your Temperament

Tony presents our next MMJ on November 30th about our temperaments.
What are temperaments? Well first thing to know is that it is not your personality. They fall into four main categories:
  • Sanguine
  • Melancholic
  • Phlegmatic
  • Choleric

These are based on the work of Aristotle. Once you figure out which temperament is yours it will help you understand why you act or respond the way you do. It is also a great way to understand your spouse, children, friends and family. Come figure out which temperament is yours – the results may surprise you!

Dare to be Great in FOUR Saturdays

Fellas, the upcoming half day retreat at Tony's house is only FOUR Saturday's away. If you've not confirmed your attendance, do so now by replying to this blog post.

This is going to be an incredible FOUR hours of fellowship and reflection on topics that affect all of us in some way.

There are FOUR great speakers with talks on these FOUR topics:

  • Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters – Ten Key Principles That Will Dramatically Impact You and Your Daughter
  • Men Raising Men – Forming Boys into Virtuous Men That Can Change the World
  • Real Men Bleed – Busting the Myths Behind Being a Good Husband
  • Fighting the Good Fight – Commitment Declaration

As an added bonus, here are bios on our FOUR speakers.

Monday, November 12, 2007

Silent Retreat ALERT - Sponsorships Doubled

Gents – there are only 2 men signed up for the Silent Retreat at Carmel Retreat Center the end of the month.  If this doesn’t improve the retreat will be canceled.  I urge your help and support. 

MMJ has doubled the number of sponsored slots to 4 – this is a savings of $185 per person. 

Please spread the word to any men you think would be interested in going.  The only condition for the free spot is you cannot have been on a Silent Retreat in the 12 months and you need to register in the next week.  You can also get more info on this blog post.

Please help MMJ spread the word about this retreat.  They are a true gift to us and they have literally changed the lives of many men who have attended.  Let’s not let such a noble and good cause get canceled due to lack of participation. 

A Reflection on Purgatory - May 13, 2005

Definition

  • Purgatory is from the Latin root "purgare" and means to make clean or to purify
  • In short, Purgatory is a temporary state after death on the path to Heaven

History of Purgatory

  • Some of the early Church Fathers such as: Tertullian, Origen, Cyprian, Lactantius, Eusebius, Cyril, Gregory of Nyssa, Epiphanius, Jerome, Ambrose, John Chrysostom, Augustine, Gregory the Great, wrote about an intermediate state after death; a way station on the path to Heaven.
  • The proofs for the Catholic position, both in Scripture and in Tradition, are bound up also with the practice of praying for the dead. Such prayers only make sense if a third state - one other than Heaven or Hell - exists.
    • After all, if the person who died is in Heaven, prayers would be meaningless; if the person was in Hell, then they are already lost and prayers would not help them.
    • Prayers for the dead are found in early Christian catacombs and in early church liturgies.
  • "Both purgatory and prayers for the dead were upheld by the major councils such as: Council of Carthage in 394 AD, Council of Lyons II in 1294 AD, Council of Florence 1438 AD, Council of Trent 1545 AD, as well as, Vatican II 1963 AD.

Download the full teaching here.

Mary, Most Holy - March 18, 2005

Mary became God’s intermediary (Mediatrix) with the world when she agreed to Gabriel’s request and continues this role for eternity.

Mary, more than any other creature, has cooperated in reconciling man with God. Being true Mother of God, Our Lady gave the divine Word a human nature and through Jesus gave the divine nature to man. In addition, by her free consent at the Annunciation of the Angel, she made the reconciliation between God and man possible, that reconciliation which was accomplished by Jesus by means of Redemption.

The doctrine of the Church teaches: “that God has entrusted to Mary the treasury of all goods so that each one may know that through her we obtain every hope, every grace, for it is His will that we obtain everything by means of Mary” (“Ubi primum”, Pope Pius IX, 1849).

Download the full teaching here.

Sin - A Lenten Examination - March 04, 2005

What is sin?

The Catechism defines sin:

  • Sin is an offense against God… Sin sets itself against God's love for us and turns our hearts away from it. Like the first sin, it is disobedience, a revolt against God through the will to become "like gods," knowing and determining good and evil. Sin is thus "love of oneself even to contempt of God." (CCC 1850)
  • In other words, sin is an intentional turning away from God. It is our personal choice, even though knowing better we make a selfish decision to walk away from God, His wisdom, love and grace.

Download the teaching below:

The Eucharist - February 25, 2005

“The Eucharist is the source and summit of the Christian life. The other sacraments, and indeed all ecclesiastical ministries and works of the apostolate, are bound up with the Eucharist and are oriented toward it. For in the blessed Eucharist is contained the whole spiritual good of the Church, namely Christ himself, our Pasch.” (CCC - Catechism of the Catholic Church, Article 3 Chapter 1 Section 1327)

What Percentage of Catholics believe they are truly receiving the body, blood, soul and divinity of the Lord Jesus Christ under the appearance of bread and wine?
A. 15%
B. 30%
C. 50%
D. 70%
E. 100%

Download the full teaching here.

St. Valentine and Trivia - February 18, 2005

At least three different Saint Valentines, all of them martyrs, are mentioned in the early martyrologies under date of 14 February. One is described as a priest at Rome, another as bishop of Interamna (modern Terni), and these two seem both to have suffered in the second half of the third century and to have been buried on the Flaminian Way, but at different distances from the city. In William of Malmesbury's time what was known to the ancients as the Flaminian Gate of Rome and is now the Porta del Popolo, was called the Gate of St. Valentine.

Download the full teaching here.

Wednesday, November 07, 2007

Dare To Be Great: Rediscovering Fatherhood

Men – check out the flyer for the upcoming ½ day retreat with Father Todd from 2-6PM on Saturday December 15th (social and food starts at 1PM). There will be some very thought provoking talks and it is certain to give you many great insights into being a better dad and husband. Show the flyer to your wives and they will probably make you go!

Kris is facilitating and I am very excited about the subjects addressed on this retreat since it impacts so many of you that come to MMJ. Please invite a friend or two while there is still plenty of time. I will not rest until we have at least 20 men signed up! As always we will have a door prize. To be eligible you have to invite one person to the retreat and have them attend.

Topics Covered:


  • Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters – Ten Key Principles That Will Dramatically Impact You and Your Daughter
  • Men Raising Men – Forming Boys into Virtuous Men That Can Change the World
  • Real Men Bleed – Busting the Myths Behind Being a Good Husband
  • Fighting the Good Fight – Commitment Declaration

Please confirm if you plan on making it.


Download the flyer here.

Weekly Mass Readings - November 11, 2007

Thirty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time

2 Maccabees 7:1-2, 9-14
Psalm 17:1, 5-6, 8, 15
2 Thessalonians 2:16-3:5
Luke 20:27-38 or 20:27, 34-38


PRE-PRAYERING

The traditional clasping of our hands together in prayer speaks of begging or pleading. We petition God with hearts and hands in a posture of poverty and diminishment. We kneel in a similar posture of deep need.

Our reception of the Eucharist is the acceptance of the always-present offering of Life into our hands and received while standing. Open hands speaks of an abiding sense that the divine generosity is available and expected.

These days as we prepare for celebrating this Divine Presence, we might practice open-handed praying and receiving of all the other ways the Divine Generosity is revealed. We can pray with open hands with what has already been offered and maybe not accepted totally just yet. We can live prayerfully these days with the increased awareness of all the other presences of God which can quite easily slip past our closed hands and hearts.

REFLECTION

We hear from the book of the Brothers Maccabee in our First Reading for the Liturgy. King Antiochus from Antioch has ravaged Jerusalem and especially the temple and its treasures. He has left behind officials to subdue the Jewish people and force them to reject their customs and their God.

An old man, Eleazar in the previous chapter, has made a dramatic protest of his faith in the “living God” as he rejects the demands that he eat the forbidden flesh of pigs. He is offered, by some friends among the dominating officials, a kind of meat substitute and declares his life a witness to God’s eternal presence. He moves to the chopping block in a spirit of prayerful reverence.

What we hear today is the narrative of the seven brothers and their mother who also reject their having to eat pig meat. They are killed for their faith in the God of life Who will raise them to a higher life, because they have remained faithful to living faithfully while on earth. As for those who are oppressing God’s people, there will be no higher life offered them.

Notice the prayers or little speeches which those going to death announce. Eleazar ended his life as well proclaiming the reasons for a willingness to die on earth rather than die to the after-life.

One young brother says that his tongue and hands were given him by God to be used well while on earth, but to have them sacrificed means nothing compared to the loss of the life to come if the body rebels against God’s “law”. Keeping the strictures of the “law” is not a legalistic conformity here, but a way of living a relationship of praise and trust. The “law” is meant to keep order within the community and within each person’s life. The “law”, for the Jewish people, was an expression of how God desired the people to resist being dominated by the inner-laws of selfishness and the outer-laws of other nations. These brothers and their mother were not legalistic fanatics fearful of punishment, but faithful Jews who loved God firstly and their own lives secondly. They were making an option for the later rather than the sooner.

The Gospel is one more mouse-trap story where Jesus is presented with an apparently unsolvable proposition. A group of Jewish fundamentalists, the Sadducees, whose philosophy was that there is no life after death, comes to Jesus, not to talk about marriage, but to push their agenda as opposed to Jesus’ teachings about the life and kingdom to come. They invoke the writing of Moses to fortify their proposal to Jesus. In responding Jesus reminds them that during the encounter that God initiated with Moses at the “Burning Bush” Moses called out, “Lord”, Who is God of the three foundational persons in the history of Israel, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. God is not the God of the dead, but of the living.

The debate ends with no further words from the Sadducees. Your eye or ear might have caught something about those who do get married and those who do not. “Those who are deemed worthy to attain to the coming age and to the resurrection of the dead neither marry or are given in marriage.” These seem words of exclusion. It might mean that those who enjoy the heavenly experience of being married on this earth, during this life-experience will not receive eternal life. The single person, because they are like “angels” and they will rise. These verses seem contradictory to other Scripture passages and to the sacramental sanctity of Marriage!

Jesus is speaking more clearly of the life to come and the life that leads there. Being married or single is not the question. All human beings are invited to live on this earth without making answers, ideas, other persons, any things, any relationships into ultimates or gods. Married and unmarried, all humans, long for completion so deeply that we all can drift toward grasping greedily any one or anything which will do as a substitute. What Jesus is saying is that this present life leads to the beyond and not to itself.

It does seem to me, a single person, that those who are married can come so close to completion. That’s it though, that sharing, that intimacy can make the longing all the more intense for the ultimate or total completion. Married persons reveal to each other how they are not a god, but mutual invitations to keep heading toward the beyond, toward the real completion, toward the real God. Living this way leads to the resurrected life which Jesus came to offer. Our universal problem is that we all want the final completion of the here-after to be experienced in the here-before.

“The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want. In green pastures He gives me rest; He leads me beside the waters of peace.” Ps. 23

Taken from Creighton University - Deglman Center for Ignatian Spirituality

Calling All Topics

Got a topic you would like to see covered in MMJ?
Please let me know about it by leaving a comment to this blog post. I am coming up with the calendar for 2008 and I would love to have your input!

I can't guarantee I will use every suggestion, but they will all be considered.

Also, if you are not on the teaching rotation and would like to lead a teaching, just let me know. The only requirement is that you have been to at least three MMJs.

Send me those suggestions!

Monday, November 05, 2007

Albino Monks -- Church Movements

For all that attended MMJ last Friday, you were treated to Rob's first teaching -- and a tough one at that. Rob gave us a great overview of the Movements in the Church and why they're important.

Rob, thank you for your work to provide meaningful information on a subject that many of us knew nothing about -- Thank you!

The handout Rob provided is here.